Our purpose is to inspire love, connection and healthy sexuality
What is Liberated Love?
We are lovers, students of life and passionate about expressing love, play and connection in the world through the power of the Wheel of Consent. We are co-founders of the School of Consent with Dr Betty Martin and here we present the lovers and relationship aspects of this revolutionary work.
Liberated Love is about the freedom to experience yourself fully as a sexual being. It’s about the ability to have pleasure and joyful connection with others. This is all possible when you look deeper at who you are as an individual and how you engage with your partner(s) and other people in your life.
Our intention is to share what brought about this liberating impact in our relationship. This isn't just a lesson we've learned that we want to pass on, but how we live our lives.
Why is this important?
Our sexuality is at the core of who we are, how we express ourselves in the world and how we relate with others.
With a lover or loved ones, we want to surrender, be soft, open and vulnerable. For this to happen, we have to feel safe. It's often difficult to recognize and to let go of defenses and resistance that we think protects us from being hurt.
If you don’t know or can't clearly communicate your needs and boundaries, you can't expect another to know them. Miscommunication can occur – and with that, unrealistic expectations emerge, distance is created and sexual intimacy becomes unfulfilling – which can result in tension and stress, mistrust or jealousy.
What We Offer
To bring integrity to relating, it requires clear agreements. To create agreements, you have to know what you want. You make commitments to yourself, first and foremost, from a place of self-love and respect.
We share how to make empowered healthy choices from the embodied truth within.
By learning to notice what you want, value it, and communicate your needs, you learn to trust yourself and set yourself up to receive exactly what you want, which creates a sense of ease, safety, abundance and deeper connection. You become confident and empowered.
We provide simple, yet profound, tools to learn how to choose, communicate, receive and give. This will impact not only your sex life, but your entire life.
How We Work
Our work is for anyone who is interested in learning more about themselves and improving the quality of their relationships – personal or professional, with lovers, friends, parents, children or colleagues. We create spaces based on safety, consent, and confidentiality so that you can connect to your desires and identify your limits.
Safety & Consent
The foundation of our work is based on the Wheel of Consent by Dr. Betty Martin – a foundational tool for all human relating. We offer a safe space where you are in charge of your experience.
All of our sessions are confidential. We create a space for you to feel accepted and comfortable. We promote authenticity, truth and always welcome the whole you, just as you are.
Desires & Limits
Whether you are participating in a one-on-one session, a workshop or something else, you will have many opportunities to identify desires and personal limits and practice communicating them.
What Others Are Saying
"I’ve seen Matt and Robyn create a completely relaxed, safe space within minutes. They express and encourage people to be completely themselves and take care of their needs. They live it themselves as well when they teach or facilitate a workshop, which makes it very natural and easy for the participants to do so as well."
- Workshop Participant, Amsterdam, Holland